According to Merriam Webster, to be proactive means to act in anticipation of future problems, needs, or changes. For any relationship to flourish, work is required. These days, I see that many people take the reactive approach in their relationships. They wait for the other person to make a move so they can reciprocate.

What if you make the first move? I admit that it may be a vulnerable position to place yourself in, but you will be in good company because you know who else makes the first move? God! Time and time again, God reaches out to humanity in love before humans even realize their need for Him.

How God anointed Jesus of Nazareth
with the Holy Spirit and with power.
He went about doing good and healing all
who were oppressed by the devil,
for God was with him

Acts 10:38 (ESV)

I believe God also expects us to be proactive in our love for others. He tells us to love our enemies (people that do not like us) and to pray for them. Someone doing this is not waiting for the enemy to have a change of heart, but is being good to them before they have a change of heart. In addition, He has shown us what true love looks like and His behaviour should be emulated.

I have stored up Your word in my heart,
that I might not sin against You

Psalm 119:11 (ESV)

Benefits of being proactive with love

• You can set the tone of the relationship
• Potential for reduced stress because needs are usually prepared for
• Potentially makes you more observant
• Your creative skills get sharpened
• You can set boundaries

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How are you going to proactively love henceforth? What are some other benefits of being proactive with love?

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